Today was a really lousy feel-sorry-for-myself day. The regular work stress...but i was dealing with that as best i could. Then someone pinged me and asked me to take a look at my ex's bbm status. It read, "I want to wife you" or something of that sort. My heart fell to my feet. The day no girl looks forward to, but knows will come. The day her ex will officially announce to the world that he has found another "ONE". And that was how my day went spiralling out of control...pulling me down down till i hit rock bottom.
I know people say 'you shouldn't let someone make you feel that unhappy', 'you should try to shake it off and move on'...blah blah blah...i did oh, but ko work! It affected me,I won't lie. But after a long while, i decided to try to be happy. Even if I didn't feel it, i was going to pretend it...then hopefully it would come naturally.
My consolation? That I know there's that special someone for me too, and i'll find him (sooner rather than later, i hope).
On the bright side, I'm doing Sex and the City 2 with my girls today...Yaaaayyyy!!! I'm looking forward to Manolos, Westwood, Cocktails, and lots of guy-talk. Prince of Persia's also out today, for the fashion-declined ones. So...hop on one train!
Okies, gotta go! Have a beautiful weekend.
Kisses xxx
Amebo!
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
This too shall pass...
Heyyyyyoooooo!!!! See me keeping my promise oh! And I feel good too...I just might make this a habit. Just got to work, and I thought, let me do this before the day starts. I'm a bit upset right now...Abuja's still sooo quiet this time of the day. Regular people resume work at 9,10am and here I am at 7. Hisssss. Oh well, this too shall pass.
Moving on to more pressing issues. I have advice to share with you.You know how they say you can never find your husband in a club? Same goes for face-book, twitter...and the most recent addition...BBMessenger. So my friend says to me, there's this dude(let's call him Chuks) that wants your BB pin...I'm like,is he fine, fresh, will be ping me at odd hours? I was satisfied with her answers and I thought, let me go for it, I can always delete if I don't like abi? I didn't like at all! In fact, I went to hell and back 3 times when I saw the picture...Chineke! But I put off deleting for a while...'he might just be entertaining', I said to myself.
Some days later, I went to Ceddi to see Iron man with my girls...and some guy calls out my name. I'm like 'yes?' and he's like 'don't laugh, it's me...Chuks'. Crappers! We say hi to each other, talk randomly for a bit, and then I go back to my friends. Next thing, he changes his bbm status to "Got my ego bruised tonight". Ermmmm....what did I do wrong? Should we have fallen in love there and then? Or I should have volunteered to move in with him and cook him nice meals? I really do not understand guys at all. He wasn't worth a second of my time, so I deleted him immediately. On to the next one...
So my cousin gives this guy my number, then she calls me and says...'He's tall dark and handsome'...Yeah right, I've heard that before. To cut the long story short, he was indeed tall and dark, but Handsome? No way. I forgave him for the face sha....but I couldn't get past his accent. Thick undiluted Igbo-sounding English. Hian!!!! I have a thing for Igbo guys, but not this one. On to the next one...
I have officially given up. I have decided to wait and meet my future boyfriend naturally, but does that still happen? Being single is still fun, so imma enjoy it for a bit. But if you know any TDH guys....do not hesitate to send them my way :D
Kisses
Amebo!
Moving on to more pressing issues. I have advice to share with you.You know how they say you can never find your husband in a club? Same goes for face-book, twitter...and the most recent addition...BBMessenger. So my friend says to me, there's this dude(let's call him Chuks) that wants your BB pin...I'm like,is he fine, fresh, will be ping me at odd hours? I was satisfied with her answers and I thought, let me go for it, I can always delete if I don't like abi? I didn't like at all! In fact, I went to hell and back 3 times when I saw the picture...Chineke! But I put off deleting for a while...'he might just be entertaining', I said to myself.
Some days later, I went to Ceddi to see Iron man with my girls...and some guy calls out my name. I'm like 'yes?' and he's like 'don't laugh, it's me...Chuks'. Crappers! We say hi to each other, talk randomly for a bit, and then I go back to my friends. Next thing, he changes his bbm status to "Got my ego bruised tonight". Ermmmm....what did I do wrong? Should we have fallen in love there and then? Or I should have volunteered to move in with him and cook him nice meals? I really do not understand guys at all. He wasn't worth a second of my time, so I deleted him immediately. On to the next one...
So my cousin gives this guy my number, then she calls me and says...'He's tall dark and handsome'...Yeah right, I've heard that before. To cut the long story short, he was indeed tall and dark, but Handsome? No way. I forgave him for the face sha....but I couldn't get past his accent. Thick undiluted Igbo-sounding English. Hian!!!! I have a thing for Igbo guys, but not this one. On to the next one...
I have officially given up. I have decided to wait and meet my future boyfriend naturally, but does that still happen? Being single is still fun, so imma enjoy it for a bit. But if you know any TDH guys....do not hesitate to send them my way :D
Kisses
Amebo!
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Return of the...Prodigal Blogger?
I'm sooo shy right now...I feel like a visitor on/to my own blog :(
I blame it on work, more work...and other random paroles. Oh!!! And my bb too, yup! I'm here now, and that's all that matters...thanks to a certain somebody that motivated me.
So, I got another job....Yayyy me!!! Ok, not your regular 9 to 5 job (was never a fan anyway), but a job all the same. Feature writer for a fashion and beauty magazine, how cool is that? I've always wanted to write professionally,so to me this is a dream come true. Means I'm gonna be a lot more busy than I am now...but I'l always find time to do this.
On the movie front, I just havta say this. 2010 has been pretty disappointing! From Clash of the titans to Percy Jackson & The Olympians:The lightening thief, I'm yet to be WOWed...so I'm sticking to my series. I'll take Keifer Sutherland over Sam Worthington anyday anytime! Sad yeah? Na so we see am oh.
I've got loads of other gist for you oh, but sleep calls...gotta be up early tomorrow, as always.
More yarns later.
Kisses.
xxx
Amebo
I blame it on work, more work...and other random paroles. Oh!!! And my bb too, yup! I'm here now, and that's all that matters...thanks to a certain somebody that motivated me.
So, I got another job....Yayyy me!!! Ok, not your regular 9 to 5 job (was never a fan anyway), but a job all the same. Feature writer for a fashion and beauty magazine, how cool is that? I've always wanted to write professionally,so to me this is a dream come true. Means I'm gonna be a lot more busy than I am now...but I'l always find time to do this.
On the movie front, I just havta say this. 2010 has been pretty disappointing! From Clash of the titans to Percy Jackson & The Olympians:The lightening thief, I'm yet to be WOWed...so I'm sticking to my series. I'll take Keifer Sutherland over Sam Worthington anyday anytime! Sad yeah? Na so we see am oh.
I've got loads of other gist for you oh, but sleep calls...gotta be up early tomorrow, as always.
More yarns later.
Kisses.
xxx
Amebo
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